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Promoting Children's Self-Awareness:
Using Questions to Build Relationships

**This article came from a handout I received in one of my child development classes.
I have no idea who the author is.**

Key Points about Questions:

1. When adults ask children rapid questions, one right after another, they often follow-up with more questions before children have a chance to respond. Waiting 3-5 seconds for an answer gives children time to collect their thoughts and tells them that you are interested in hearing a thoughtful and reflective reply.


2. When adults take the lead in questioning, they often dominate the conversation, making it difficult for children to participate in turn taking and in selecting topics that hold their interest.


3. Many questions adults ask go unanswered; when children respond, they tend to give brief answers.


4. Open-ended questions or creative questions, rather than close-ended questions, are questions calling for many possible answers, all of which might be reasonable or correct.


5. Recasting questions as comments or statements enables adults to demonstrate interest in children without pressuring them to answer.


 
Assumptions about Close-Ended
and Open-Ended Questions:
Close-Ended
Open-Ended
Asks for one correct answer; usually only one answer is possible. Many answers may be possible.
Elicits one word or short phrase. Elicits elaborated response.
Often heard as a test question asking for information known to the questioner. Communicates interest in child; not as likely to be heard as a test question or probe for correct reply.
Gives children little to work with in thinking of what else to say. Offers children opportunities to practice selecting topics.


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